I wrote a post last week about the difference between criticism and leadership communication, suggesting that criticism is all about describing a negative situation, and that leadership uses a negative situation as a “not-so-happy beginning” to start a story that you can lead with.

Leadership communication skills are cultivated when we start to speak to the interests of our audience.
So, from one perspective, a leadership story has a lot in common with criticism.
From another, they are miles apart.
When we criticize (or complain or whine, etc.), we’re doing it for us. The target of the criticism might be the weather or the president or the political party on the other side of the fence from you or the political system or the people over there or whatever. But the audience of the criticism, the person it’s for, is ourselves. It’s satisfying to hear our own opinion out loud. In some way it separates us from the thing we’re criticizing, and emotionally can even put us above it. Maybe we imagine some kind of moral superiority by voicing the criticism.
When we create and give voice to leadership stories, on the other hand, we’re going way beyond that.
Maybe we’re starting from a similar place we’re in when we criticize. We’re spotting a problem in the world and giving voice to it. At that moment, we’re doing it for ourselves.
Then if we proceed to develop it into a leadership story, we’re thinking about who the problem we’re describing actually hurts. At this point, we’re starting to do it for them as well.
Finally, we need to start thinking about how to craft the story to ensure that it resonates for specific audiences, the people we want to take specific actions in order for the story to be realized. When we do this, we’re doing it for these audiences.
So criticism is really just for us, while leadership communication is for us, the community we want to help, and the people we want to inspire.
This is valuable to understand for a few reasons:
First, we often communicate publicly when really the only relevant audience is ourselves. Distinguishing when we’re complaining just to hear ourselves complain can safeguard other people’s feelings and our own reputation all at the same time. In this age of social media where we all have powerful megaphones, we need to bear in mind who is on the receiving end of our diatribes, and we need to ask ourselves, what do we want out of this? Do we just want to get it out of our system? Do we want people to chime in so we create a community of people feeling bad about something? Or do we want people to do something about it?
If the answer to that last question is yes, then that leads us to the second reason this understanding is valuable.
We all know that not everybody cares about the same things. If you want people to do something about something that you care about, you’re going to have to craft your leadership stories so that they speak to what your audience cares about. The story that you come up with that motivates you into action may not be the one that motivates your target audience.



The Future of Business
Back in the early 90s, I read an article predicting that the future of business was to follow the Hollywood model. Being a film guy, a was attracted by the headline, so I excitedly read the article.
It was an interesting piece that described the Hollywood business model as this:
The future of business is more, faster change. The best way to survive and thrive in all that change is to flex with the flux.
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about this article, not only because in the intervening years I’ve become an independent professional, but because I’ve been seeing more and more evidence that the article was truly prophetic. More people are going independent, and those that aren’t are changing jobs more frequently, often having different responsibilities from position to position.
This trend is not solely because of the economy going sour, although I’m sure that this is an important reason.
More people are tasting independence and loving it. Pop culture has taken to celebrating entrepreneurs and entrepreneurialism. More and more tools are available for individuals to help them promote independent ventures. Business franchises modeled specifically for individuals operating out of their homes are sprouting up all over the place.
It’s an exciting time.
And for many of us, it’s a scary time too. The world is changing faster every day. Technology is moving faster than anyone can keep up with. And the business world is moving right along with it.
Fast Company magazine recently featured an article about “Generation Flux,” covering a gaggle of professionals who all share the trait of reinventing themselves serially over the course of their careers, sometimes for seemingly whimsical reasons, but ultimately because they are responding to the changes they perceive going on around them in the business world. Sometimes they are starting their own businesses, sometimes they are going into existing companies. Many of them say that they don’t have much of a plan. But by one measurement or another, they are all successful.
“It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change.” — Charles Darwin
The article ultimately made a Darwinian point: The best way — maybe the only way — for us to not only survive, but thrive, is to change with the times.
This doesn’t mean we have to constantly change everything about ourselves to keep our heads above water. We don’t have to become anything we’re not. We don’t need to throw any of our skills away. We don’t need to constantly get training to learn new jobs that are obsolete by the time our training is complete.
What it does mean is that we need to be flexible in how we think, and let that flexible thinking inform what we do. We need to define ourselves not by what we do on a day-by-day basis, but by the change we make in the world, and whom we make it for.
Focusing on what we *do* is often bound by the specific circumstances of the moment, and therefore will change a lot. Focusing on the change we’re committed to creating connects us to bigger picture movements, and will allow us to follow consistent values inside of us while the specific nature of what we’re doing flexes with the flux surrounding us.
For many years, Deluxe Corporation could operate just fine thinking of itself as a company that prints checks. But as technology has made the use of checks plummet, it has needed to change course. And the only way for it to successfully do that was to stop thinking of itself in terms of what it did, and to start thinking of itself as to who it helped, and what change it wanted to create for those people it helped. The company is on better footing now, focusing on helping small business have what they need to run smoothly.
One of the seemingly simplest applications we do here at SagePresence is help people design their elevator pitch — a simple, concise way to communicate who and what they’re about.
It’s an incredibly powerful tool. Most of our clients want one because they want to have something both compelling and informative to say when people ask them what they do. Beyond that, the elevator pitches that we design for our clients help them tell people who they’re looking to help, and how they help them, so that the people they talk to are inspired to think about who they can connect them to.
So an elevator pitch is a vital networking tool.
But even more important than that, an elevator pitch is a simple and compelling message for us to hear. So that, every time we tell it, we remind ourselves what we’re about, why we’re here, what we’re looking to accomplish. In this way, an elevator pitch can also be a mission statement.
For instance, my elevator pitch for SagePresence coaching is this:
Business professionals come to me when they’re stuck in their career and they don’t know how to move forward. I help them get clear on what they want, and give them the tools and the skills they need to go for that goal. When I’m done, they’re thrilled to be moving with velocity toward the goals they know they want to achieve.
I love to see this and hear this because it resonates with who I know myself to be. I’m all about self-determination. I’m here to help people be who they are and make the difference that they’re here to make, regardless of the economy, or their background, or who they’re worried they are, or what other people have been telling them. People are happiest when they doing what they say they’re here for.
So I want to give everyone reading this an opportunity to do this for themselves, maybe for the first time. And at the same time, I want to hear it from you. What are you about? Why are you here? What are you looking to accomplish?
Give us your elevator pitch. Tell us four things:
Let us hear it, and let us know how it resonates for you to put it into language like this.
And for anyone out there who reads one of these elevator pitches and knows someone in the target market who is suffering from the problem that a poster describes, follow your instincts and make an introduction!